There's nothing we humans can't do to attract attention

How far are you prepared to go to get attention?

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It really seems to me that especially ladies sometimes do not leave what they do not do to themselves to attract attention. 

The other day, I saw a lady passing by me on the road painting her lips red.

She had such big lips, and it was so red that the lipstick she put on those lips, believe me, whoever would not take her eyes.

Naturally, it attracted my attention too.

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Being beautiful, looking beautiful is a natural feeling that comes from all of us. 

For this purpose, it is enough for us men to be well-groomed and to have a sporty body. 

However, for some reason, ladies need things far beyond these things.

Ladies like to look sexy.

Let them do whatever they want, of course, I have nothing to say to them. 

I'm talking about aesthetics!

Some ladies have their breasts lifted and enlarged. 

Some have their noses, some have their eyelids lifted. 

There are those who stretch their face.

There are many more aesthetic corrections.

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If they're more comfortable that way, there's nothing to say.

But my objection is to those exaggerated things.

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The lady I saw on the road at work, I think she exaggerated the aesthetic intervention.

She had a lot of fillers in her lips, one lip on the ground, one lip in the air.

Or there are also those who have both inflated their lips and had an operation on their upper lip so that their front teeth are visible.

Like a rabbit, their front teeth protrude forward from their mouth.

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Ladies do it to be sexy, I get that.

But it seems to me that these tortures they endure are not just for being sexy. 

I guess it's in their nature to do things to themselves.

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It seems to me that ladies do such things by looking at each other with the feeling that look, she did it, I should do it too.

Some of them keep carving something on their bodies. 

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Look, actually, this subject doesn't matter whether it's a man or a woman.

I'm talking about people with tattoos.

Okay, maybe if it's something small again, I think it's okay.

I have no objection to those who get a small tattoo for the memory of something, maybe just because they want to. 

But those who exaggerate?

What about those who cover their whole body with intricate shapes?

I don't understand them at all.

They say it's a symbol of freedom, but I think they probably still do it to attract attention.

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I will not go into the subject of piercings or speedo, my older daughter once wore big big rings in her ears. We had to convince her to take them off after years. 

She still has big holes in her ears. Those holes could not be closed all these years.

Not to mention the seven or eight holes in each ear where she could wear earrings. He still wears a lot of earrings in his ears.

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You see, the little girl has no interest in such things.

So people's characters are very different from each other.

According to the Chinese calendar, the lady says the big trump is the rooster, and she tells me that roosters like to show themselves.

But what effect do such things have on a person's character?

Believe me, I don't understand such horoscopes, animal horoscopes, star movements and all that nonsense.

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Nevertheless, it is the nature of all living things to want to attract attention.

Except for us humans, the males of other creatures in nature have thought of a thousand and one things to attract the attention of the female.

Either they put a bushy mane on their necks, or they got a colourful tail, or something else.

In short, in order to sustain the species, males had to be more flamboyant than females in nature.

What can they do if they want to be admired?

In other words, species with more flamboyant males had more chances to live in nature, and that is probably why the males of the species living today are more flamboyant than the females.

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Leaving aside their lives in nature and the concern for reproduction, is it so important for us humans to attract attention?

Or what do you think the real reason for this feeling might be?

Is reproduction, the continuation of the lineage really the main reason why we want to attract attention?

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Or could there be another reason besides that?

Necla is jealous of Ayten!

For men, the goal may be to pick up, but I think there are other reasons for the ladies to attract attention!

Look, among the ladies, jealousy, maybe even envy of each other can also be a reason for this competition for attention.

Necla should be jealous, ooh, it's worth my life. 

How I made her buy the only bag I had before her, I'll wear it on my arm, I'll swing from side to side in front of her, I'll make Necla crack up!

That's probably what Ayten thinks when she makes Necla jealous.

In other words, the reason for the conflict between the ladies is not always the fight over who will be the handsome one. 

They also like to show off to each other.

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Yeah, we said it's in our nature to seek attention.

For example, how far would you go to attract attention?

Do any of you have the courage to go out on the street with red paint on both cheeks?

Look, if you could do that, people would turn round and look at you. 

You would attract a lot of attention!

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But this isn't about getting attention.

It would be crazy if you did something like that.

Okay, maybe we would have attracted people's attention when we did this, but on the other hand, when people saw someone doing such a thing in the middle of the street, they would say that they were crazy.

Unfortunately, wanting to attract attention does not mean doing such ridiculous things.

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Most of the things most of us do are more of a self-esteem booster!

For us men, for example, how interesting it would be to own a good car, wouldn't it? 

What a confidence booster it would be to own a good car!

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Or wearing a stylish outfit, for example, when you go somewhere.

Combed hair, a nice outfit, a brand watch on your arm, the latest mobile phone in your hand. 

And maybe the keys to the latest car in one hand!

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Although nowadays they make cars without keys, the doors open automatically when you approach the car with a chip you carry in your pocket, and the engine starts as soon as you press the button inside.

In other words, you can no longer have an accessory that you can show that you have a latest model car.

Look, car manufacturers seem to have missed what else the key that people waved in their hands in those old times was used for. 

The key was not only for starting the car in the old days, you could also show off with that key!

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The lady with red lipstick and big lips smiled and continued on her way.

I think she was aware of the fact that she was wearing an exaggerated make-up and she seemed to be pleased with my astonished look at her.

I don't know, maybe her aim was to test her self-confidence to see if she could really attract attention.

I don't know the reason for this exaggerated make-up, but I think it didn't suit her at all.

She didn't have the inexperience of a young girl who had just started wearing make-up, she was old enough, but it still didn't suit her.

There was no dignity in that make-up that a person of that age should have.

She didn't look like a light person from her clothes, but she had exaggerated her lip make-up.

I turned round and looked after her again.

She was continuing on her way with a smile.

There was a smile on the faces of everyone he passed by.

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What can I say, some people must be cheerful. Or they like to spread joy around them.

Love and respect to everyone from Moscow