Man takes the rust out of man

Now I would like to tell you about the subject of conversation, which is a sociological fact of life, with a philosophical article. 

If I was asked the famous question "What would you like to do if you were a very, very rich person?" what would I say? 

I would probably say that I would never eat alone and that I would invite my friends from different segments of society to my table: artists, architects, travellers, writers, politicians, bureaucrats and others. On this occasion, people who did not know each other would meet at the table I had organised, and those with different views would discuss civilly in that beautiful conversation and dining environment. 

Of course, it was a must for me that the discussions were both civilised and friendly. At my table, there should not be shouting, insults and words and style that would hurt each other. A conversation should continue on the issues on the agenda of the society. Any person sitting at such a table should not realise how the time passes. 

In such an environment, all this would give me happiness. There would be an exchange of information, people would get to know each other better. It would be a brainstorming session. Nowadays, when technology dominates our lives so much, we can savour face-to-face conversations as in the past. There is a positive or negative current in these conversations, including the messages conveyed by body language from eye to eye, from tongue to ear, from the posture of the hand to the other person. 

My aim would be to bring these people with positive currents together. And this is realised through face-to-face gaze and conversation. Of course, I respect technology, I accept innovation, but I am extremely sad that mobile phones have distanced and isolated people from each other to such an extent. 

I think being in those friendly discussion environments is one of the most important needs of our society at the moment. What a correct diagnosis! While writing this article, I would like you, my dear readers, to think about the meaning and importance of conversation. 

Let's not call it a conversation. It is the greatest need of today's people to talk in a friendly, friendly way, to be a friend, to make friends, to make trouble provided that it stays in dose. It reduces brain fatigue and increases our happiness. 

The saying, "Man takes the rust of man" is very true. Conversation is an opportunity to get to know people we do not know. The definition of "Don't ask the person's original, it is clear from the conversation" is also a very correct approach. The way the other person speaks, the words he/she often uses in a sentence, his/her gestures and mimics reveal who he/she is in the most natural and realistic way. 

There are many ways for adults to transfer their knowledge, experience and skills to new generations. Conversation is one of them. I think that people who do not experience the warmth and happiness of chatting with their friends and the depth of merging by talking to each other betray themselves and poison their own lives because they cannot benefit from this beauty of life that God has blessed them with. 

However, man is a social being. He cannot live alone. He needs friends, mates, mates, friends, friendship. Conversation is the food of life like water and bread. In our country, there are some stereo assumptions when it comes to conversation: 

Among men, sports, more precisely football matches, then politics, social problems and economic problems come to mind as topics of conversation. For some reason, the proportion of men who complain about their wives is not small. He cannot talk to his wife, he talks about his wife and makes her an appetiser for conversations. Not very nice. 

The first thing that comes to women's minds is fashion and clothing, and social status. Unfortunately, conversations on science, fine arts, music and literature are only occasionally held in very naive environments. 

In general, it cannot be said that we, as a society, benefit from the educational, instructive and beneficial aspects of the conversation at a sufficient rate. 

I pay close attention to the facial expressions of my friends who say goodbye at the end of the conversations. Most of them leave with a relaxed, smiling face, more energetic and lively appearance than when they arrived. This description includes me too, and this appearance gives me real joy and happiness. Every person has heart-warming aspects that are truly lovable, if we can see them. Of course, if we don't create an opportunity, if we don't come together in a favourable environment, we cannot see these beautiful human details. In short get-togethers, we may not even realise it. Being together with people is a good opportunity to bring out these positive qualities. 

The opposite is also possible. So, sometimes grumpiness and tensions can also come out. As they say, he who loves the rose bears the thorn. Expressing the good sides of people, talking about them in moderation, without exaggeration, gives a positive energy to the environment. It also enriches the language of conversation. 

We are all travellers on a lifelong journey of understanding ourselves and others and adding value to life. Conversation facilitates and colours this path. We get less tired while climbing the slopes and overcoming the bumps. Each friend participating in the conversation opens the doors of a unique world of awareness to his friends in that environment. It enriches our mind and heart accumulation.

Throughout history, societies that are contented with only knowing have always lagged behind and stumbled in the race of civilisation's progress. However, societies that talk, question, and make questioning continuous have played the most important role in laying the foundations of the future of the world.

Conversation is realised through speech and the medium of speech is the word. The word is energy, power. It carries the positive or negative energy, thoughts and feelings of the speaker. The best way to share this energy, emotion and thoughts is to participate in conversations that bring friends together. It is to be together in pleasant conversation environments. 

I wish all my friends a happy chat environment, decorated with witticisms, with the right, knowledgeable, good people.

Stay with respectful love.