My Heart's Door Is Open, Enter Without Asking

There are several types of physical doors:

Wooden doors, steel doors, iron doors. Some are open, some are half-spaced, and some are tightly closed. Now, you can say what will happen to our writer, who has made people look like a door. Believe me, I don't know either. Now I am coming to you with an article on doors. Each person has limits in his relationship with the other.

When these borders are forcibly crossed, the other party feels occupied. If he thinks he can do it, he will resist, if he thinks he can't, he will either give in or run away. In any case, the one who pushes the limits by disregarding the other has lost.

Although he feels like he has won on the surface, he will never be able to reach the soul of the person whom he has crossed by force. Maybe he can keep it with him. Maybe he can have the other, but it will definitely be a tasteless possession. After a while, regret and mutual troubles begin. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman, if the other person's door, heart and soul does not allow you to enter, do not try to force yourself in. Eventually, you'll get a headache. Knock on the door and step back, believe the virtue of waiting will make you happier than breaking the door and entering. Whoever is willing to lose will win.

Being Patient, Waiting for the Door to Open:

Sometimes it is necessary to knock on the door again, to call softly. If the door is to be opened, it will open. After doing his part, the person should know how to respect the will of the other person and learn to wait. Imagine that they forcefully break your door to open it, would you welcome those who come? I do not think so. If so, then it's time to re-examine yourself. It is the same in relationships.

It is always problematic to force people who do not want to talk, to insist that they will marry those who do not want to get married, and to force people who do not want to come. A friend of mine went crazy when he could not get a "yes" answer from a young woman whom he platonically loved and offered friendship to many times, and he went crazy and said, "If he says no to me, he would kill himself so that he would show up and say it to my face." However, the young girl told me differently. He had repeatedly stated that he did not want such a thing. But since the friend was closed to anything but the answer he wanted, he had pushed her more and frightened her.

Some people knock on the door so persistently that even if the person behind the door will open the door, they cannot open it for fear. That's why people should learn how to knock on the door, and how long to wait.

Relationship with Parents and Children:

In our relations with our children, we sometimes go beyond the limits of being a parent and push our children's doors too hard. They can dive with all their might without knowing the child's world, without seeing the smallness of the door, without waiting for it to be ready. However, being a parent should not require intervening in the child's world as one wishes.

In some parents, they break the children's door one by one, it's dust and smoke. With this hurt, the child cannot come to his senses again. He can't trust anyone. He can build iron gates between himself and all people, thinking about what others wouldn't do if even his parents did this.

Private life is inviolable. It is the same in law and religion. There is an offer, there is no insistence. Just as not everyone can enter our house by waving their arms, we cannot enter the private world of people aggressively. This world can be the psychological world, it can be the world of the heart. Only with a certain politeness can we go to their door and knock.

Get what if they open:

If they don't open, we wait if it's worth it and watch when they're ready. Especially for our children, without getting angry. Even if others do not open it, we do not break into it, we head to another door with our dignity. Every day is spent knocking on someone's doors and opening our doors to others. I hope we learn as soon as possible to open our doors to the right people and knock on the door of the right people in the right style. Otherwise, a sticky life, broken doors and hearts, scattered lives that swallowed up the scatter, would be knee-deep.

As we come to the end of another article, I would like to end my lines with a beautiful composition of Turkish classical music.

Let's say "THE DOOR OF MY HEART IS OPEN, ENTER WITHOUT ASKING", let people with good hearts knock on the door of those with open hearts.

I say stay with respect and love.