What does Valentine's Day mean?
Like aged wine, those who live a love that gains value over the years on both sides, in partnership, are blessed to spend the last days of their lives in happiness and peace by enjoying the beauties of the life they live together.
They say, "Half of every living being's heart beats in another living being". At this point, I am very happy that I have found the other half of my heart. When the clock strikes 23.59 on February 13, the 14th of every year, lovers who are geographically distant from each other already have their love messages ready on their cell phones. As the clock strikes 00.00, "words of love" fly through the air. Although the criteria of love may be expressed differently in the words spoken between two lovers, the important thing is to be able to experience the pleasure of being able to love someone with a deep love, without reciprocation
On February 14th, the smell of love permeates the air. Especially for young people and those who manage to keep their souls young, this smell is special. On this special day, my wish is that every creature on earth who believes in love has a beautiful love and is happy. I believe that mutual love is sacred and requires care and labor. Especially when two hearts become one, it is the best!
And do you know what the importance of February 14th is? It is important for you to remember that you are eternal by opening your heart to another person and taking them into your world and you into theirs. Let's talk about the other side of the coin! As a matter of fact, one can't help but think: Is it only one day a year to remember your lover? How does the romantic lover of February 14th turn into a man, a woman, running backwards down the steps in evolutionary theory the next day? It is sometimes not possible to understand and explain the chemical change in the love-children of February 14th when you are a caveman for the remaining 364 days!
To look at it from a man's point of view, I fear for myself when I see what has become of women and the way they are viewed in the current environment we live in. The generations raised with the proverb "He who does not beat his daughter, beats his knee!", when they inhale the abundant oxygen of the country, they turn into types who look at women according to strange perspectives such as "a woman without a veil is like a house without curtains". However, for a man to put the shackles on the feet of the woman he calls his wife, lover, daughter, etc. is nothing but weakness. Isn't it women who raise men?
The man who stabbed his wife in the street the other day, who knows, may be the same man who bought flowers for his girlfriend on Valentine's Day. How can we as a society rise up when thousands of silent screams rise in the air every day in our society, when women are killed 'for the sake of love'? How and when will we realize that we need to save our women from bruises that are covered with foundation or clothes?
Yes, we said February 14th, but love should not be remembered only one day a year! It should not be a one-day love. For some, it is not even one day, it is 365 days of cruelty to women.
I hope that on this February 14th, everyone who breathes, who really lives, finds their soul mate who respects the love they carry within themselves, who values love, who believes in the sanctity of love. Young people should know that the love between two people turns into a deep love over time, and eventually they enter the autumn of life together, accustomed to each other like flesh and blood, unable to breathe without the other. Like aged wine, those who live a love that gains value over the years on both sides, in partnership, are blessed to spend the last days of their lives in happiness and peace by enjoying the beauties of the life they live together.
With respectful love