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What Fidelity Means and What It Does Not Mean

What someone does to you; If it takes shape according to the present and situation by giving importance to office, envying beauty, aspiring to wealth, forgetting where it came from, not remembering the past and experiences, then yes, the exact equivalent of this is called disloyalty in our language.

Sense of Loyalty:

Loyalty is one of the highest of human emotions, a magic word that is easy to come out of the mouth. Fidelity; It is not only the name of the place where the poet we drink on cold winter nights in Istanbul is made. But what really matters, although it has lost its former importance these days, is the greatness of its meaning and value for those who have come of age like us.

Fidelity is  the one that contains and crystallizes the k utsal values. What someone does to you; If it takes shape according to the present and situation by giving importance to office, envying beauty, aspiring to wealth, forgetting where it came from, not remembering the past and experiencesthen yes, the exact equivalent of this is called disloyalty in our language.  To exist in a good time, to walk away for no reason when times diverge, not to be there  for a friend or companion when they need you best, and even to 'run away' is disloyalty.

Loyalty is the Sake of a Cup of Coffee:

If we do not know the concept of covenant vfa;   We don't appreciate a cup of coffee, a  sip of water, a beautiful flower, or a beautiful smile.  Those who do not get their share of covenant loyalty  are  the  poor people who have the habit of walking so arrogantly that they think that they are touching their heads to the sky.  Now let's ask ourselves. How are we?  Let's put our heads down and look at the ground and think long and hard about it.  How loyal are we to our friends, our friends, our brothers, so let's do an internal accounting for ourselves?

Fidelity; it is not a form of attitude or behavior displayed for the sake of an interest or expectation. A high character is a choice. Loyalty is not always about exhibiting such great things. It is just appreciation. It is to appreciate the kindness, help, friendship, etc. shown to you, big or small. In fact, appreciating a wild flower and rewarding a beautiful and sincere smile becomes a sign of supreme loyalty in its simple and simple form.  Strangely enoughin our age of increasing things, loyalty is about to become the least low. It shouldn't be like that. Loyalty should always be multiplied. Anywhere, anytime. Those who have passed away are buried in the ground, and memories and experiences are written in the heart. It is not the soil that is faithful, but the heart.

Loyalty is not to do wrong to the nobility of friendship and the dreams you have built. Loyalty is not to sell the beauties experienced to the wrongs of the world. There is no  person  who has no loyalty, who is not compassionate, who has no sincerity, who has no horizon  , who has no conscience, who has no faith and creed, who does not have beautiful and pleasant thoughts in his brain, who lives love,  affection and affection and   does not appreciate  it. To be faithful is to be crowned.

Disloyalty:

Disloyalty darkens the heart. Let's be faithful and make it as bright as the stars. Zia Pasha says that "bade (wine, drink) is not drunk in the assembly where there is no faithfulness." Being faithful is not a problem, it is the solution. the son of man must know how to bring forward the only good  in his memories in the midst of the  evils of the past. Although there are many evils experiencedhe must know how to remember the good deeds and to bring forward the only good that shines like an emerald among those evils, in shorthe must be faithful in every situation. Loyalty is a value that is accepted as valid for those who know how  to live life, to be happy, to share love with friends. Let's be loyal by adopting this as a principle.

Hazrat Mevlana;  "it is loyalty and loyalty that make the dog out of the dog and make it a friend. It is disloyalty that dehumanizes man and makes him a dog."  diyor.  It is considered one of the greatest virtues to be able to show loyalty until the last breath. What upsets human beings the most; since they carry it in their hearts, write in their hearts, do good even if it is to the point, value it, spare time, pay a material and spiritual price,  it  is ultimately the pain that disloyalty causes to it. . Living is for those who know how to laugh, how to deserve love, how not to forget loyalty, and friendship to remain ancient. The comfort of stinginess will never be the flavor of jealousy.

Fidelity; first of all, it comes from a salet and svote. It is  not correct to interpret loyalty  as farewell. It is necessary to live loyalty as loyalty. Being good, beautiful and loyal is the greatest of happiness. Whichever way we look, let's be full of hope. Whoever we look at, let's see how to be loyal. Whoever cares about youshow him your loyalty, do not forget the beauties done to you.  Because the true friend is the one who takes the time to the one who cares. Without generosity, property is worthless, if it is not useful, your position, and friendship and friendship are not worthless if you are not loyal.  Let us not look at what is mighty and pompous, but at what is valuable, and find value. Let us always be faithful to the covenant everywhere without giving up humility and without disturbing our solemn stance. To be a covenant, having loyalty is to attain. Gets fidelity in return, to attain covenant loyalty.

I would like to end my article with one or two lines:

 

Loyalty

 

What every person desires; loyalty in respect, love and affection,

Most of the time he is looking for but cannot find it; loyalties expect from your friend,

 

If the friend's friend falls into trouble, the friend will always be by my side,

Only on a good day with your friend, the path that cannot be taken as a friend.

 

Friend; a medicine for a friend's friend, a medicine for a friend's friend,

There are always true friendships, covenant and loyalty.

Araştırmacı Yazar Mustafa Orhan ACU
Research Author Mustafa Orhan ACU
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  • 07.06.2022
  • Time : 4 min
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