Behavioral Communication
From birth to death, from production to consumption, from sorrow to joy, from defeat to victory, there are basic pillars in the individual's own healthy life line and thus in the social cycle. All these shape the behavioral elements of all kinds of communication or behavioral communication.
Questioning Life
By learning from the experiences of each age, human beings develop their skills and expand the scope of social memory. From generation to generation, both accumulation and elements are passed on and the excess is left behind or transformed into a hump. Rewards and costs become entangled in each other.
From birth to death, from production to consumption, from sorrow to joy, from defeat to victory, there are basic pillars in the individual's own healthy life line and thus in the social cycle. All these shape the behavioral elements of all kinds of communication or behavioral communication.
First and foremost, the individual should know himself/herself, reveal what he/she is, where he/she comes from, and where he/she is heading, and always continue his/her constructive struggle for life. There are needs such as food, water, clothing, sleep and shelter in terms of survival and reproduction. The transformation of these into emotional needs is also important in itself. The questioning of oneself, one's first emotions and the next, in short, one's life, is evaluated artistically in Acı Tatlı Ekşi (Director: Andaç Haznedaroğlu, 2017). Regardless of age, place and time, it maintains its internal communication and accounting route and pursues behavioral communication.
Living is a Beautiful Thing
In order to maintain emotional balance in the flow of life, it is necessary to develop the ability to cope with issues, illnesses, negativities, impossibilities, difficulties, stress, counter-projects. The title Yaşamak Güzel Şey (Director: Müfit Can Saçıntı, 2017) is mostly possible with the "despite" bend. The fact that the movie genre is a comedy does not change the main fact of life. Negativities, setbacks, obstacles and difficulties always have a bigger image.
Since the first point of impact of any kind of pressure and tension felt is the person himself/herself, it is among the ordinary elements of everyday life. If attention is paid, it supports both success and happiness. More should definitely be kept on the work table. In the first place, it is essential to use a red light from time to time to give way to everything, to completely give up all kinds of habits, especially tobacco, which cause blockage of energy eyes, and to get away from stressful environments, groups and causes, and to get rid of them in undesirable situations. All kinds of addiction, especially substance abuse, starting with the individual and his/her close and distant environment, soon opens the doors of social collapse wide open. Two Breads (Director: Şefika Özcan, 2019) carries the longing and longing to its peak.
Reinforcing, maintaining and supporting social closeness with the environment, starting from within the family, actually means strengthening the basic elements of the individual. Although the majority of the generation that sacrificed love, respect, sacrifice, friendship and loyalty for the life of others has completed its struggle, some of them are still alive. Such an experience changes the quality of time and experiences in a positive direction.
Of course, individual closeness will strengthen social relations and bring an aware added value to the society. The commandment "Tell your friend" is, on the contrary, a request for the presentation of oneself to one's interlocutor. In this respect, the student's friend, the educator's friend, the worker's friend, the merchant's friend, the woman's friend, the man's friend, the artist's friend have a value beyond the mediatic meaning. As represented in the film My Friend (Director: Nazmi Özer, 1982), it is generally accepted that friends have a positive or negative impact on almost everyone's breaking points. Even the necessity in the representation of Yol Arkadaşım (Director: Bedran Güzel, 2017) is an important behavioral element of the neighborhood and range communication in which friends appear. A Dost Bulamadım (Director: Kemal Kan, 1973) is as much a poster of desperation as Nereye Arkadaş (Director: Yunus Yılmaz, 1976) is a symbol of returning there. Especially adolescence and the early years of adulthood are reflected in the simplicity of Criminal Youth (Director: Orhan Elmas, 1985).
Time Management from an Individual Perspective
Time is the most precious jewel of an individual. For this reason, in addition to essential expenditures, regular sleep, entertainment and rest are activities that increase its value, even if they seem to diminish this jewel. In particular, there are countless academic and intellectual studies showing that sleep improves the quality of human life. However, for many, it is not easy to fix the bedtime and wake-up time required for quality sleep, to get away from electronic devices an hour before, to keep the ambient temperature lower than body temperature, and to give up alcohol consumption. The limitation of time is overcome through positive or negative steps in the style of Beş Vakit (Director: Reha Erdem, 2006). It should be up to the individual to decide how time should be spent. It must be supported by regular exercise. Such activities manifest themselves not only in the time spent but also in subsequent individual and social life. An activity that involves more than one person should be considered in terms of individuality as well as collectivity.
In order to get rid of the negativities that are realized, especially those that are fictionalized in the mind, one should be persistent and determined in the stages of intention, decision and implementation. The internal communication part of this is the most challenging part. In order to be able to realize, accept and then move towards the exit, imbalances, distortions and inaccuracies must be tackled and strengthened against them much more than normal. In external communication, personal development, raising the standard of living, serializing a positive view of the world, overcoming possible barriers are required. All of this is shaped by the way one behaves towards oneself and is reflected in one's surroundings in the same way.
Physical boundaries refer to the sphere of bodily movement and protection. A significant part of these also includes privacy. Keyhole (Director: Metin Yılmaztaş, 1975) conveys privacy as well as falling into disgrace, and stirs up the representation of vulgarization.
Living Alone Is Also a Stance
The right to one's own thoughts and feelings determines emotional boundaries. It can be reflected in a wide range of discussions or it can be evaluated in the form of a single person taking part in the opposition.
It depends on the leadership of authentic and mindful activities in a healthy lifestyle. It is important to start the day with a solid breakfast, to avoid all kinds of addictive substances and products, to focus on cerebral activities, to pay attention to the cleanliness of the body, home, workplace and environment, to use soap, to listen to music, to do various exercises, to communicate with the people they value and find. Individuals should prioritize their personal happiness based on the fact that if they cannot take care of themselves, they cannot take care of others.
Interacting with people and communities that they find value in and value themselves supports the concepts of nourishment and nutrition. It is known that embracing based on sincerity increases the positives in meeting human needs and causes the negativities to diminish. As it is known, negativities tend to trigger other tensions and their prevention paves the way for many positive developments unnoticed. It removes loneliness-centered fears from the human mind and helps people understand that they are loved and the power of love. In this way, the channels of material and spiritual cleansing are kept open. If she can treat herself well, she will become a stronger, healthier, happier and grounded person. Hanım (Director: Halit Refiğ, 1989), on the other hand, portrays the bitter end of living sensibly but alone.
Difficulties in Life
Challenges are not just for one person. Everyone faces challenges in one way or another, but they act on their own choice. On the other hand, trying to find the cause of difficulties and eliminating it provides gains from different points in personal development. If you postpone it, it becomes more complicated and it becomes more difficult to find a solution. In the near, medium or long term, postponed issues can turn into a shackle and lead to getting stuck, burnout or giving up. The possibility of going back and finding the cause, catching it and finding a solution has become very weak.
In order to stay away from all these whirlpools, it is necessary to take small, small but decisive steps, and to turn to solid routes that have not been deviated from so far. Otherwise, procrastination, wasting the jewel, making excuses, being preoccupied with unnecessary aspects, self-sabotage, and getting results becomes impossible.
In a life where illnesses, misfortunes and unhappiness are rampant, it is important to determine one's range. Pazarları Hiç Sevmem (Director: Rezzan Tanyeli, 2012) is a representation of funerals, weddings, the old, the new, in other words, the human condition.
Lonely People, Lonely Lives
Who has lost time so that you can take time for yourself: watching a movie, listening to music, enjoying a cup of coffee, a quiet environment, journaling, writing poetry, a sincere conversation, deep directed breathing, a culinary activity, reading a book, stopping unnecessary computer use, lying down, taking a nap, these are all ways of taking time for oneself and taking care of oneself without spending much time and cash.
One of the most toxic and harmful elements is negative environments. They prepare the ground to easily adopt defeatism. The focus must be on the solution, not the problem. When difficulties arise, one should return to the strong basic elements and act on them with strong but simple steps.
People who become urbanized, crowded as they become urbanized and yet lonely in crowds may feel the need for support in psychological, psychiatric and personal development areas. This should be provided through solid, scientifically based and professional channels, but they often find them formal and boring. Thus, they fall into the firing range of observers.
Themes that should be reflected in TV series and movies
In reinforcing the elements of personal behavior in communication with media products, the framework of Turkish culture must be utilized. Due to our field of study, representation should be made visible in television series and movies of different genres. Accordingly
- Quality sleep, rest, entertainment venues,
- Peaceful living environments,
- Healthy nutrition studies,
- Physical and environmental cleanliness,
- Thoughts of focusing on success,
- The last port of refuge is family responsibilities,
- Efforts to participate in at least one sport activity,
- Efforts to use a few musical instruments and to listen to music of interest,
The titles and themes should be reflected in different sequences of TV series and movie projects and should be continuously delivered to the target audience so that "it is not the force of the water that pierces the marble, but the continuity of the drops." When awareness is reflected from media products to brains, the mobility that cannot be prevented will begin.
When behavioral communication is delivered to the target audience, even if the impact rate is different, social memory will start to become transparent, thoughts against abnormalities will take on vivid colors and start to take action, flags will be taken from those who have fallen behind and will continue to fly.