Paradox

You say, "Come on, let's do something like this. First he says okay, then he makes a thousand arguments. He doesn't want to take responsibility for anything. He has a caprice, he doesn't like anything.

You say, "Look, if you do it like this, we can't do business with you.

He says as you like, if you say we can't do business, then let's not do business together. If you say so, he says it's fine with me. 

So he doesn't care, he doesn't care if it will benefit you, if it will make a contribution when you need it.

On the other hand, he is also crawling, in fact, you will benefit him, not him benefitting you. He needs you more than you need him. 

But he still doesn't care, as long as you say to take a hold of this job, he overwhelms you with his whims, he constantly complains.

***

Why are people like that?

Not all of them, of course, but I feel like we have become very capricious, especially lately.

Especially those who have a lot of money like to put a handle on everything because I don't give them money, so it will be the way I want it to be.

Yes, the one who pays the piper blows the whistle, but there seems to be no need to be so capricious.

***

But the ones I criticise more are those who are both guilty and think that they are right because they are strong. In a sense, those who always come out on top like olive oil. 

I also criticise those who are in a miserable situation, but who are too busy being capricious just for the sake of being capricious. But as I said at the beginning, these people are miserable, and their capriciousness is only harmful to themselves.

Those who are both guilty and think that they are right with their power are dangerous people.

By using their power, they are accustomed to taking what they want by force, without caring what the other person is like.

Moreover, when there are so many power worshippers around, the power of such people is getting stronger every day.

Because human beings have an interesting structure. Even in our country, as they say, you should kiss the hand of the one you can't bend your wrist, they also call it Stockholm syndrome, people like to approach the power and gain power from that power.

***

This is not the day to be pessimistic! 

One way or another, there will always be such people around. You will stay away from such people, after all, well-intentioned people like you are in the majority, as they say that the pilgrim finds the pilgrim in Mecca, most of the people you will encounter in life are normal people like you and me, they will not do any harm. You can communicate with people with peace of mind.

Yes, this is also true, the majority of people really mean well.

But on the other hand, most of them are careless! 

Let the snake that doesn't touch me live a thousand years!

Look, this has become the current lifestyle for many. Let me tell you, let the trouble be far away from me, I am already in no condition to take care of myself, let me not deal with your trouble. If you have a problem, stay away from me!

Of course, there are many reasons for the general public to think like this. First of all, we went through many hardships throughout the country. Then we are going through a strange period economically. Unfortunately, we are in a difficult situation economically throughout the country. No one is really in the mood to worry about someone else's problems.

But on the other hand, there is such a thing as being human! If we are not going to worry about each other's problems, why do we call ourselves human beings? What difference do we have from other creatures that do not have a mind?

On the other hand, isn't being human also about sharing one's sustenance and being able to eat together, as it is said that he who eats when his neighbour is hungry is not one of us?

Maybe, but if neither you nor I can sleep full with a slice of bread shared, then there is no point in sharing. In order to share, there must be something to share. 

And the way to get something that can be shared is to do something together.

So here we come to the beginning of the article!

You say, "Come on, let's do something together. First he says okay, and then he brings up a thousand different things!

How are we going to get out of this?

My love and respect to everyone from Moscow.