Being a Real Man
"The rapidly declining number of cases"
Intense business life, daily hustle and bustle, and excessive technology addiction should not make us forget the concepts and contents of BEING A MAN, which is now in disgrace. Even if we are not alive, even if we do not think about it, and even if we tend to forget, I think that we should seriously consider BEING this MAN. Let's think about it, do research, discuss, even write. As I read and discuss in social environments, I see that it is imperative for all of us to fight our human shortcomings.
The difference between MAN and non-man becomes evident not only in big events and wide-ranging environmental conditions, but even in very small NUANS. Being a man is hard work, in fact, those who can't be a man know this very well(!). Being a man is even harder. More precisely, it is an endless process. The man must have a different stance. This is FORCED or a spontaneous difference, not just in appearance. MEVLANA defines human with a WALNUT analogy. The outer shell, with its beautiful color, delights earthly pleasures, then the inner shell and the white interior protected by a thin membrane. Snow white and CLEAN. In the pure purity of a newborn baby. This difference emerges as the inner world of the person is purified.
BEING A MAN means not giving up and not giving up. If you ask what not to be afraid of(?); from the difficulties of life, from the problems that people outside us, from their WORDS, from LIE, from hypocrisy, from those who make cheap calculations that save the day, from those who pursue worldly pleasures and FAME.
BEING A MAN is a long road with lessons to learn, exams to overcome. INTELLIGENCE, ETHICS, Depth of Thought, ORDER and DISCIPLINE, Humane feelings, Tolerance, Empathy, Love; These are the keys of MAN that found the RIGHT way. In order to move forward without a hitch on this endless long road, MIND is the beginning of the road and every other WORD is the stops of that road. It is taken on the road and learned by stopping at the stops. Finally, a breath is taken at the point of LOVE.
In order to continue on this road to infinity, CONFUCIUS says, "MAN MANY are superior to water and fire". He says, "I saw people go into fire and water and die because of it, but I did not see anyone who entered MANSHIP and died because of it," and his features are also: MAN THAT IS A MAN loves inner values, BAD MAN loves world values. THE MAN BEING THE MAN; LAW loves, PRINCIPLE loves. BORING MAN; He likes to make eye contact in any situation. THE MAN BEING THE MAN is dignified, but not smug. BAD MAN, smug but not dignified, he explains with his words. BEING A MAN is not living with what he says, what does he say(?) thought and limitation. But it is to live in moderation and balance. TO BE LIKE YOURSELF. Not responding to the lies of others with lies. Not to be proud because I won in the face of success, not to be discouraged by the feeling of losing in defeat. My heart, which is based on your heart and nerves, is to be able to say endure, to be FRIEND with everyone and to remain virtuous.
It is to live every minute, every hour with WORK, EQUITY, sweat and WISDOM. It is treating even seconds as a day. SUSMAK when he needs to be silent and listen, and to speak concisely when he needs to speak. THE MAN BEING THE MAN; He is cheerful and does not frighten anyone with his respected seriousness. He is noble, generous, wise, virtuous, just and helpful. Keeps secret. He is a self-educated person of his own free will. He who acts with thought and speaks with thought. I think the phrase "We are not men" is not a word that is unknown to any of us. Even though I don't like it, it is so ingrained in the language and mind of our people that this definition, which has become an idiom, is the bitter result of hundreds of years of backwardness, ignorance, not reading, and laziness in thought. Like all prejudices, the positive approach and effort of our people in this direction has also been limited. I am still against the validity of this idea. Every human being is endowed with reason and will. It is up to the individual to use them. Of course, our people can be a MAN LIKE A MAN, even they can...
CONCLUSION;
A MAN LIKE A MAN is a person who says, when leaving this world, that I lived with integrity, I was not selfish, and I tried to be useful to my society and all humanity. Being a MAN LIKE A MAN is not surrounded by difficult and insurmountable obstacles as it can be seen. The human mind and will can create the will and desire necessary to BECOME A MAN, of its own will and with its own hand.
Without making the point, I would like to leave the word to CONFUCIUS again: “Mankind is very close when firm determination and little talk are combined. If someone worth talking to is met and not spoken to, a MAN is wasted. If someone who is not worth talking to has been met and spoken to, words are wasted. THE MAN THAT IS THE MAN neither wastes the MAN nor wastes his words. This is the article I wrote on MAN; Those who are ADAM should read and tell those who claim to be ADAM and cannot. Because; Those who are not ADAM walking around on our right, on our left, in front of us and behind us, this article is dedicated to them. MAN is not made, MAN is born. Dot...
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In my opinion, he will learn manhood. There is only one MAN LIKE MAN; he is also "MUSTAFA KEMAL ATATÜRK"...
