What are Normal and Abnormal Human Behavior Patterns?

Since there is a sociology of outliers, a crazy question came to my mind again as to how normal people, who make up the majority, behave. From my point of view, normal people; the people that some people define as "Normal People" are people who are not outliers. If you are an outlier, you are not normal! If you are normal, being an outlier is out of the question. Being an outlier is not enough to be a "good person"! Sometimes you are known as an outlier in a good way, sometimes you may be accepted as an outlier in a bad way. This is actually a label of those who accept you, who measure you, who assess you, who grade you, who have the right to evaluate you. People who do what they are told, who do not object to what is given, who do not express any opinion, who never object, who never ask questions, who never question are "normal people!" This is how it is known. 

Those who cause trouble in any business are not liked. If you have taken office in a political party, then you are expected to restrain yourself from saying things that the chairman does not like. This is the format, this is the expectation. Even what and how much you think is determined by the party leaders. In businesses, it is the managers who sit in authorized positions or on boards that determine this. In a small workplace it is the boss who determines this. If you write for a magazine, your editor is the one who decides what and how much you think and how much of what you think is useful or harmful you can express in your writing. In short, wherever you are, you are considered a "normal person" if you fall under the power of that place. If not, you will be labeled an "outlier". If you are a good observer, you know exactly what I mean! 

Even on social media, which is shown as one of the most free platforms, the space for free movement is very limited. Even there, when you put forward an opinion contrary to what the general public is used to and expects, it is easy to be taken down by lynch culture. Sometimes you may hear people say that social media does not accept normal people. This is actually true. When they say that you have to be an outlier, the algorithm in the media draws the framework of the outlier. 

In other words, everyone on social media wants others to think like them, live like them, like what they like, support what they support. Anyone who says otherwise is the biggest liar. Thus, what they call the new normal is imposed on you. 

A normal person working in a shopkeeper's shop is one who obeys his employer, the shopkeeper, unconditionally. If the shopkeeper asks him to add water to the milk, the normal person does so without objection. If he needs to add stones to rice, he should add stones. If he needs to add another additive to the oil, he should do so unconditionally. If he needs to lower the bill, he should do so. If he has to raise the price of every commodity at the desired rate, he should do so. 

In all businesses, small and large, the work culture is repeated in the shops in our neighborhoods. Here too, those who do what they are told are also the winners in the eyes of the rulers. In this sense, for example, there is no better politician than those who raise and lower their fingers in Parliament. And the people love them very much. People who work, ask, question, and at the same time are constantly under the spotlight are seen as outliers. Such people are not liked for some reason. Politicians who don't get involved in anything, who don't let their province/hometown get a bad name are good politicians in the eyes of the public.

A normal person is one who is not disturbed by others. A normal neighbor is a quiet neighbor. He does not complain about the high fees, nor does he interfere with the dirt and rust on the stairs. A normal person behaves normally everywhere. In other words, a normal person is one who fits every mold, wears every disguise, does what is asked, takes what is given, gives what should be given, but never asks, questions, questions, questions or objects. 

By the way, if possible, people who consider themselves 'normal' should not read this article that I have written from my point of view. Because I am sure they will be very angry with me. I am just slapping you in the face with what you don't want to hear. After this article, if possible, normal people should not read anything, learn anything and never go anywhere, see new things and confuse themselves. Otherwise they will be unhappy; they will also make those around them unhappy, restless and disturbed. Better yet, go back to your corner and sit like a normal person, happy and contented. 

I still say, "long live the outliers!" It is always the outliers who carry the torch of progress, enlightenment and looking to the future with hope.

Stay with respect and love.